{"id":153,"date":"2018-12-08T19:51:50","date_gmt":"2018-12-08T19:51:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.letrat.eu\/?p=153"},"modified":"2024-08-25T15:38:54","modified_gmt":"2024-08-25T14:38:54","slug":"vete-menaxhimi-i-manifestimit-te-imazhit-dhe-te-identitetit-tone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/letrat.eu\/?p=153","title":{"rendered":"Vet\u00eb-menaxhimi i manifestimit t\u00eb Imazhit dhe “Identitetit” ton\u00eb!"},"content":{"rendered":"

S. Guraziu – Ars Poetica, N 2018 (Koment)<\/em><\/p>\n

Natyrisht, vetveten e shohim sipas “prizmit” ton\u00eb, sipas mendjes son\u00eb, veten e gjykojm\u00eb sipas standardeve t\u00eb vet\u00ebgjykimit dhe si krijesa shoq\u00ebrore e “paraqesim” veten p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Facebook psh. e shfryt\u00ebzon pik\u00ebrisht k\u00ebt\u00eb “aspekt” t\u00eb psikologjis\u00eb s\u00eb njeriut (njeriu sikur definohet nga ego-t, nga alter-ego-t, e sidomos “beta-individ\u00ebt” : ) Dihet se “beta-t” jetojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr bot\u00ebn sesa ekskluzivisht p\u00ebr vete, jetojn\u00eb p\u00ebr t’u “dukur”, ego-ja e tyre ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr doza sistematike t\u00eb ekspozimit, t\u00eb till\u00eb s’mund t\u00eb rrin\u00eb pa i “treguar bot\u00ebs” se kan\u00eb bler\u00eb rroba firmato, se tani kan\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb makin\u00eb apo k\u00ebt\u00eb luksozitet n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, se kan\u00eb ndenjur n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb kafene, se kan\u00eb vajtur p\u00ebr pushime n\u00eb Katmandu a n\u00eb Ibiza, se kan\u00eb qen\u00eb n\u00eb piknik\u2026 e t\u00eb ngjashme.<\/p>\n

Pa t\u00eb till\u00eb individ\u00eb rrjetet sociale si Facebook e t\u00eb ngjashme s\u2019do t\u2019ishin kurr\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb ato jan\u00eb, s\u2019do kishin shans p\u00ebr sukses. Pra Facebook na ndihmon t’ia prezantojm\u00eb bot\u00ebs imazhin dhe identitetin ton\u00eb, dhe duke qen\u00eb nj\u00eb socio-platform\u00eb “regjistruese” (psh. i ruan fotot, b\u00ebmat, shkrimet, komentet, aktet, nd\u00ebraktivitetin me rrethin e miq\u00ebsis\u00eb, eventet, \u00ebndrrat… gjith\u00e7ka), mund t\u00eb sh\u00ebrbej\u00eb dhe si nj\u00eb lloj “koh\u00eblinje” e cila do e shpaloste si i japim form\u00eb apo e form\u00ebsojm\u00eb, si e p\u00ebrshtasim veten ton\u00eb p\u00ebr t’i p\u00ebrmbushur, p\u00ebr t’i prekur, p\u00ebr t’i arritur standardet dhe parapritjet e rrezes shoq\u00ebrore.<\/p>\n

K\u00ebshtusoj, duke e p\u00ebrcjellur vetveten, duke e “par\u00eb” veten, mund t’i shohim pasakt\u00ebsit\u00eb q\u00eb dalin p\u00ebrmes “syve” t\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, dhe me koh\u00ebn adaptohemi ndaj ego-s, ndaj vetes “formale”, b\u00ebhemi m\u00eb t\u00eb shkath\u00ebt n\u00eb prezantimin e manipuluar t\u00eb vetvetes (p\u00ebr rrjetin social, por dhe p\u00ebr neve vet\u00eb), sepse na b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndjehemi m\u00eb “t\u00eb sigurt” (qoft\u00eb dhe si falsitet), sepse e ndihmon stabilitetin e vet\u00ebbesimit ton\u00eb.<\/p>\n

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“S’jam ai q\u00eb un\u00eb vet\u00eb mendoj se jam. S’jam ai q\u00eb ti mendon se un\u00eb jam. Jam ai q\u00eb un\u00eb mendoj se ti mendon se un\u00eb jam<\/strong>” – Charles Horton Cooley (1864-1929)<\/p>\n

…sikur pak\u00ebz e “koklavitur” p\u00ebr ta kuptuar drejt dhe leht\u00eb, por th\u00ebnie aq briliante, pothuaj sikur e “pabesueshme” se si Ch. H. Cooley q\u00eb n\u00eb shek. XIX e dinte t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn tem\u00eb tani 2 shekuj pas tij dhe s’jam i sigurt n\u00ebse di mjaftush\u00ebm, s\u00ebpaku t\u00eb dija sa p\u00ebr vete : )<\/p>\n

Si vijon, \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7 si rrumbullak\u00ebsim i di\u00e7kaje q\u00eb ishte punim-tez\u00eb p\u00ebr “Master of Fine Arts” (MFA), Utah State University, 2013, nga Richard Landvatter – autori ia fillonte duke e p\u00ebrdorur th\u00ebnien m\u00eb lart t\u00eb Charles Cooley, shkrimi i tij kishte t’b\u00ebnte me vet\u00eb-menaxhimin e manifestimit (t\u00eb neve vet\u00eb) p\u00ebr ta form\u00ebsuar “identitetin” ton\u00eb n\u00eb mediat sociale (si psh Fb, Twitter etj). M\u00ebnyra se si do t\u00eb duket “prezantimi” yn\u00eb n\u00eb Internet mund t’jet\u00eb mjaft e frikshme, – ishte shprehur Landvatter – duke shkaktuar at\u00eb q\u00eb njihet si “ankthi i paraqitjes”. Ky ankth na nxit t\u00eb kujdesemi p\u00ebr “influencimin e paraqitjes”, gj\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb rezultoj\u00eb n\u00eb shtremb\u00ebrim, n\u00eb profil fals, t\u00eb g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebrt t\u00eb asaj \u00e7far\u00eb realisht jemi.<\/p>\n

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\nPhoto (cropped): UM Library – University of Michigan – Charles H. Cooley family<\/span><\/p>\n

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S. Guraziu – Ars Poetica, N 2018 (Koment) Natyrisht, vetveten e shohim sipas “prizmit” ton\u00eb, sipas mendjes son\u00eb, veten e gjykojm\u00eb sipas standardeve t\u00eb vet\u00ebgjykimit dhe si krijesa shoq\u00ebrore e “paraqesim” veten p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Facebook psh. e shfryt\u00ebzon pik\u00ebrisht… Lexo →<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-153","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-komente"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/letrat.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/153","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/letrat.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/letrat.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/letrat.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/letrat.eu\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=153"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/letrat.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/153\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/letrat.eu\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=153"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/letrat.eu\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=153"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/letrat.eu\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=153"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}