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(senad guraziu – ars poetica, n 2025)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Grat\u00eb e Profetit Muhamed<\/strong><\/span>

N\u00ebnat e Besimtar\u00ebve<\/strong><\/p>\n

Gjithsej nj\u00ebmb\u00ebdhjet\u00eb (11) gra thuhet se jan\u00eb konfirmuar t\u00eb ken\u00eb qen\u00eb t\u00eb martuara me Profetin Muhamed. Anise kishte t'b\u00ebnte me nj\u00eb num\u00ebr m\u00eb t\u00eb madh grash (psh. historiani Al-Tabari shkruante se Muhamedi u martua me gjithsej 15 gra, po ashtu duhet konsideruar s\u00ebpaku dhe nja 4 konkubina). <\/p>\n

Si shenj\u00eb respekti, besimtar\u00ebt i referohen secil\u00ebs prej k\u00ebtyre grave me titullin Umm al-Mu'minin (ar|\u0623\u0645 \u0671\u0644\u0652\u0645\u064f\u0624\u0652\u0645\u0650\u0646\u0650\u064a\u0646\u200e - N\u00ebnat e Besimtar\u00ebve) i cili term rrjedh nga Kurani. Me kalimin e koh\u00ebs, si nderim secila prej grave t\u00eb Muhamedit filloi t\u00eb parashtesohej me Umm al-Mu'minin. Thuhet se termi rrjedh nga shprehja \"Profeti \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb af\u00ebr besimtar\u00ebve sesa vet\u00eb ata, dhe grat\u00eb e tij jan\u00eb (si) n\u00ebnat e tyre\". Termi parashtesor zbatohet p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjitha grat\u00eb e tij, pa p\u00ebrjashtime.<\/p>\n

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Photo: Nurul Sakinah Ridwan (Free downoad: Pexels)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

P\u00ebrvec 2-3 grave, t\u00eb gjitha t\u00eb tjerat o ishin t\u00eb martuara, ngelur t\u00eb veja, o t\u00eb divorcuara m\u00eb par\u00eb. Sidoqoft\u00eb, gruaja e 2-t\u00eb ose e 3-t\u00eb, Ajshja (nuk dihet sakt\u00eb n\u00ebse ishte e 2-ta apo e 3-ta) ishte madje e mitur, nuk ishte as 10 vje\u00e7 kur babai e pati fejuar me burrin e ardhsh\u00ebm \"50-vje\u00e7ar\", \u00ebsht\u00eb kjo nj\u00ebra nga pikat m\u00eb t\u00eb rrahura t\u00eb debateve dhe t\u00eb mospajtimeve nd\u00ebr shkollar\u00ebt e bot\u00ebs islame. Por se Ajshja do b\u00ebhej \"favoritja\" e tij, dhe se do luante nj\u00eb rol jasht\u00ebzakonisht t\u00eb madh n\u00eb p\u00ebrhapjen e teksteve, dhe apo t\u00eb Islamit, kjo dihet sigurt.<\/p>\n

Martesa e par\u00eb e Profetit Muhamed ishte me Hadijen e pasur n\u00eb v. 595, kur ai ishte rreth 24-25 vje\u00e7 dhe ajo ishte 28 (ose 41 vje\u00e7 - as ky detaj s'dihet). Khadijah bint Khuwaylid ishte gruaja e tij e vetme deri n\u00eb vdekjen e saj n\u00eb v. 619 (shpallur nga vet\u00eb profeti si \"Viti i Pik\u00ebllimit\"). Vdekja e saj i dha fund martes\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre 24-vje\u00e7are. Pas Hadijes, Muhamedi do martohej dhe me 10 gra t\u00eb tjera. <\/p>\n

Khadijah bint Khuwaylid ishte nj\u00eb pronare karavanesh, tregtare e pasur nga Meka q\u00eb e pun\u00ebsoi Muhamedin e ri dhe m\u00eb pas i propozoi martes\u00eb. Ajo do ishte n\u00ebna e 6 f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tij dhe personazh ky\u00e7 n\u00eb zhvillimin e hersh\u00ebm t\u00eb Islamit. Hadija vdiq n\u00eb Prill t\u00eb v. 620.<\/p>\n

Sipas Anas ibn Malik, fuqia dhe libido-seksualiteti i Profetit ishin t\u00eb padiskutueshme, i vizitonte t\u00eb nj\u00ebmb\u00ebdhjet\u00eb grat\u00eb brenda 24 or\u00ebve; mir\u00ebpo ai mund ta arrinte k\u00ebt\u00eb, pasi i kishte aft\u00ebsit\u00eb seksuale t\u00eb tridhjet\u00eb burrave. [Al-Tabari, Vol. 9, pp. 126-127 - The Last Years of the Prophet - Translator: Ismail K. Poonawala - Publikuar: Shtator 1990 ISBN: 978-0-88706-691-7<\/em>] Pra, historiani Al-Tabari shkruante se Muhamedi u martua me gjithsej 15 gra, megjith\u00ebse do ishin 11 n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb; dhe 2 nga k\u00ebto martesa nuk u konsumuan kurr\u00eb. Sipas tij, ky num\u00ebr prej 15 grash nuk i p\u00ebrfshin t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn 4 konkubina.<\/p>\n

\"Konkubin\u00eb\" \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb grua me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn nj\u00eb burr\u00eb bashk\u00ebjeton pa qen\u00eb i martuar, dhe ka nj\u00eb \"status\" shoq\u00ebror n\u00eb familje m\u00eb t\u00eb ul\u00ebt se ai i nj\u00eb gruaje legjitime. T\u00eb gjitha konkubinat e Muhamedit ishin skllave t\u00eb tij. <\/p>\n

Al-Tabari gjithashtu nga numri i 15 grave i p\u00ebrjashton disa gra t\u00eb tjera me t\u00eb cilat Muhamedi kishte nj\u00eb lloj kontrate martesore, mir\u00ebpo t\u00eb cilat, p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb teknikaliteteve ligjore, nuk u b\u00ebn\u00eb kurr\u00eb gra t\u00eb plota. Megjithat\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb mjaft e sigurt se asnj\u00ebra nga k\u00ebto femra nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb \"prekur\" ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb nga profeti. Ato ishin ekuivalenti kulturor i nj\u00eb fejese t\u00eb prishur. S\u00ebfundi, kishte disa gra t\u00eb tjera me t\u00eb cilat Muhamedi d\u00ebshironte t\u00eb martohej, ose me t\u00eb cilat ishte ftuar t\u00eb martohej, por p\u00ebr arsye t\u00eb ndryshme nuk qen\u00eb realizuar kurr\u00eb - thot\u00eb Al-Tabari.<\/p>\n

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\nWiki-Portali i religjionit, pjesa p\u00ebr Islamin, mir\u00ebmbahet nga komuniteti i mbar\u00eb globit n\u00eb 36 gjuh\u00eb t\u00eb bot\u00ebs (nd\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat kuptohet dhe gjuh\u00ebt e \"m\u00ebdha\" si Arabisht, Anglisht, Fr\u00ebngjisht etj., p\u00ebr fat t\u00eb keq jo dhe n\u00eb Shqip), sidoqoft\u00eb, derisa duke e \"studiuar\" tem\u00ebn n\u00eb fjal\u00eb nga burime t\u00eb ndryshme, m\u00eb qe ngjallur p\u00ebrshtypja se asnj\u00eb nga burimet, qoft\u00eb n\u00eb Wikipedia-n zyrtare me 36 gjuh\u00eb, apo nga referenca tjera, libra, artikuj, portale dhe publikime t\u00eb tjera, t\u00eb dh\u00ebnat lidhur me martesat dhe grat\u00eb e Profetit Muhamed nuk p\u00ebrputhen 100%. P\u00ebrputhen \"p\u00ebraf\u00ebrsisht\", pothuaj ngjash\u00ebm (m\u00eb qe ngjallur p\u00ebrshtypja) si\u00e7 p\u00ebrputhen \"p\u00ebraf\u00ebrisht\" burimet e mitologjive greke a germanike.<\/p>\n

Psh. si\u00e7 mund t\u00eb shihet tek portali, Wikipedia e mir\u00ebmban materian voluminoze t\u00eb referencave (pothuaj referenca \"marramend\u00ebse\" do thosha, me dhjetra e qindra sosh), por t\u00eb dh\u00ebnat q\u00eb figurojn\u00eb n\u00eb tekstet \"wiki-zyrtare\" (gjoja t\u00eb cituara, t\u00eb kontrolluara nga editor\u00ebt) n\u00ebse krahasohen me disa t\u00eb dh\u00ebna t\u00eb grave t\u00eb Profetit varrosur n\u00eb varrezat Al-Baki n\u00eb Medin\u00eb (si\u00e7 b\u00ebra un\u00eb), pata p\u00ebrshtypjen nuk p\u00ebrputhen, qofshin aty me qindra referenca... prap\u00eb sikur s'kishte sakt\u00ebsi \"satisfaksionale\". <\/p>\n

Mir\u00ebpo gjithashtu, e pamundur p\u00ebr mua t\u00eb sjell \"konkluzione\", sikur q\u00eb dhe e pamundur t\u00eb sjell gjith\u00e7ka n\u00eb Shqip, andaj 4 kapituj (Grat\u00eb e Profetit, Propozimet martesore t\u00eb refuzara, Konkubinat dhe Fejesat dhe Kontratat e Prishura) \"Women of Prophet Muhammad\", \"Refused Proposals\", \"Concubines\", \"Engagements and Broken Contracts\", po i ngjes n\u00eb Anglisht n\u00eb fund t\u00eb k\u00ebtij v\u00ebshtrimi t\u00eb shkurt\u00ebr.<\/p>\n

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\nHistoria e al-Tabarit \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrkthim n\u00eb anglisht i Historis\u00eb s\u00eb Profet\u00ebve dhe Mbret\u00ebrve (\u062a\u0627\u0631\u064a\u062e \u0627\u0644\u0631\u0633\u0644\u0648\u0627\u0644\u0645\u0644\u0648\u0643 Tarikh al-Rusul wa al-Muluk, i njohur gjer\u00ebsisht si Tarikh al-Tabari). \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb kronik\u00eb historike dhe fetare e shkruar nga historiani mysliman Ibn Jarir al-Tabari (838-923), duke filluar me Krijimin Islamik deri n\u00eb v. 915.<\/span><\/p>\n

Historia e al-Tabarit p\u00ebrb\u00ebn nj\u00ebrin nga burimet kryesore fetare t\u00eb Islamit, p\u00ebrmban p\u00ebrmbledhjen m\u00eb t\u00eb plot\u00eb t\u00eb Ibn Ishaq's Sirat Rasul (biografia m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme e Profetit Muhamed). Historia e al-Tabarit lavd\u00ebrohet universalisht nga mysliman\u00ebt p\u00ebr detajet dhe sakt\u00ebsin\u00eb e saj n\u00eb lidhje me historin\u00eb rreth Islamit dhe t\u00eb Lindjes s\u00eb Mesme.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n
Grat\u00eb e Profetit Muhamed<\/strong> (Parashtes\u00eb nderuese \"N\u00ebnat e Besimtar\u00ebve<\/strong>\")<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Emri<\/strong><\/td>\nVitet e Martes\u00ebs<\/strong><\/td>\nSh\u00ebnime<\/strong><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Khadija bint Khuwaylid<\/td>\n595-619<\/td>\nGruaja e par\u00eb<\/strong> e Muhamedit (martuar v. 595, martes\u00eb 24-vje\u00e7are, deri n\u00eb v. 619 (Viti i Pik\u00ebllimit)<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Sawda bint Zam'ah<\/td>\n620-632<\/td>\nGruaja e dyt\u00eb<\/strong>, u martua me t\u00eb pas vdekjes s\u00eb gruas Khadija (v. 620)<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Aisha bint Ebi Bakr<\/td>\n623-632<\/td>\nGruaja e tret\u00eb dhe m\u00eb e reja<\/strong>, vajza e kalifit t\u00eb par\u00eb Ebu Bekr Al-Sadiq<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Hafsa bint Umar<\/td>\n626-632<\/td>\nGruaja e kat\u00ebrt<\/strong>, vajza e kalifit Umar, kalifit t\u00eb dyt\u00eb Rashidun (mart. v. 626)<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Zaynab bint Khuzayma<\/td>\n624-626<\/td>\nGruaja e pest\u00eb<\/strong>, ajo njihet gjithashtu si Umm al-Masakin (n\u00ebna e t\u00eb varf\u00ebrve) (mart. v. 624-626)<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Hind bint Abi Umayya (Umm Salama)<\/td>\n625-632<\/td>\nGruaja e gjasht\u00eb<\/strong> (mart. v. 625)<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Zaynab bint Jahsh<\/td>\n627-632<\/td>\nGruaja e shtat\u00eb<\/strong>, e martuar dhe e divorcuar m\u00eb par\u00eb nga Zayd ibn Harithah (mart. v. 627)<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Juwayriyya bint al-Harith<\/td>\n628-632<\/td>\nGruaja e tet\u00eb<\/strong> (mart. v. 628)<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Ramla bint Abi Sufyan (Umm Habiba)<\/td>\n628-632<\/td>\nGruaja e n\u00ebnt\u00eb<\/strong>, vajza e Abu Sufyan ibn Harb dhe gjysm\u00ebmotra e Muawiya I (mart. v. 628)<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Safiyya bint Huyayy<\/td>\n627-632<\/td>\nGruaja e dhjet\u00eb<\/strong>, Safiyya e kishte origjin\u00ebn nga nj\u00eb fis hebre Banu Nadir, pasi Beteja n\u00eb Khaybar u fitua nga mysliman\u00ebt Profeti u martua me t\u00eb (n\u00eb v. 628)<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
Mariyya al-Qibtiyya<\/td>\n629-632<\/td>\nGruaja e nj\u00ebmb\u00ebdhjet\u00eb, gruaja e fundit<\/strong> e Muhamedit. Mariyya ishte nj\u00eb grua egjiptiane, i qe dhuruar Muhamedit n\u00eb v. 628 si skllave nga guvernatori i krishter\u00eb i Aleksandris\u00eb Al-Muqawkis. Profeti e pati nj\u00eb djal\u00eb me t\u00eb, Ibrahimin (lindur n\u00eb v. 630)<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n

F\u00ebmij\u00ebt e Profetit Muhamed<\/strong>: 7 f\u00ebmij\u00eb<\/p>\n

Si pik\u00ebpamje e zakonshme merret se Profeti Muhamed i kishte shtat\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb biologjik\u00eb (3 djem dhe 4 vajza). T\u00eb gjith\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 nj\u00ebrit prej tyre, erdh\u00ebn n\u00eb jet\u00eb me gruan Khadija bint Khuwaylid mes viteve 598 dhe 615. Gruaja e fundit, skllavja nga Egjipti, Mariyya i lindi Muhamedit nj\u00eb djal\u00eb n\u00eb v. 630 (f\u00ebmija i tij i shtat\u00eb). Mir\u00ebpo asnj\u00ebri nga djemt\u00eb e tij nuk mbijetoi deri n\u00eb mosh\u00eb madhore.<\/p>\n

Me gruan Khadija bint Khuwaylid<\/strong> [Qasim (598-601), Zainab (599-629), Ruqayya (601-624), Umm Kulthum (603-630), Fatima (605-612 \/ 615-632), Abd Allah (611-615)]
\nMe Mariyya al-Qibtiyya<\/strong> [Ibrahim (630-632)]<\/p>\n

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\nTradicionalisht, dy epoka e p\u00ebrcaktojn\u00eb jet\u00ebn dhe karrier\u00ebn e Profetit Muhamed: Meka para Hixhretit, mes viteve 570 dhe 622; dhe Medina pas Hixhretit mes viteve 622 dhe 632, kur ishte vdekja e tij. \"Hixhreti\" i referohet migrimit t\u00eb Muhamedit, s\u00eb bashku me mysliman\u00ebt e hersh\u00ebm, nga Meka n\u00eb Medin\u00eb p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb persekutimit t\u00eb mysliman\u00ebve t\u00eb hersh\u00ebm nga mekasit. Gjat\u00eb k\u00ebtyre 2 periudhave kohore Profeti do martohej me 11 gra, t\u00eb gjitha martesat e tij, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 dy prej tyre, u lidh\u00ebn pas migrimit n\u00eb Medine.<\/p>\n

Si\u00e7 e cek\u00ebm m\u00eb lart, martesa e par\u00eb e Muhamedit ishte me gruan e pasur, Khadija bint Khuwaylid n\u00eb v. 595, kur ai ishte 24-25 vje\u00e7 dhe ajo ishte 28 vje\u00e7 (ose 41 vje\u00e7). Khadija do ishte gruaja e tij e vetme deri n\u00eb vdekjen e saj n\u00eb v. 619 (Viti i Pik\u00ebllimit). Pas gruas Khadija, nga v. 620 deri 628 Profeti do martohej me dhjet\u00eb gra t\u00eb tjera: me Sewdah bint Zam'ah n\u00eb v. 620; me Aisha bint Ebi Bakr n\u00eb v. 623; me Zaynab bint Khuzayma n\u00eb v. 624; me Hafsa bint Umar dhe Hind bint Abi Umayya n\u00eb v. 625; me Zaynab bint Jahsh n\u00eb v. 627; me Juwayriyya bint al-Harith, me Ramla bint Abi Sufyan dhe me Safiyya bint Huyayy n\u00eb v. 628; me Maymunah bint al-Harith n\u00eb v. 629.<\/p>\n

P\u00ebrve\u00e7 k\u00ebtyre grave, statusi i Rayhanah bint Zayd dhe i Mariyya bint Sham'un ngelet i diskutuesh\u00ebm, pasi ka patur mosmarr\u00ebveshje mes shkollar\u00ebve t\u00eb bot\u00ebs islame n\u00ebse ato ishin konkubina apo gra legjitime. Me p\u00ebrjashtim t\u00eb Aisha bint Ebi Bakr (dhe 1 a 2 tjerave), t\u00eb gjitha grat\u00eb e Profetit ishin m\u00eb par\u00eb t\u00eb veja ose t\u00eb divorcuara. <\/p>\n

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\nHadija (Khadija bint Khuwaylid), gruaja e par\u00eb e Profetit Muhamed, ishte dhe pun\u00ebdh\u00ebn\u00ebsja e tij. Duke qen\u00eb nj\u00eb grua me pasuri t\u00eb konsiderueshme, thuhet se ajo e mb\u00ebshteti at\u00eb financiarisht dhe emocionalisht. Ajo do b\u00ebhej gjithashtu \"ndjek\u00ebsja\" e tij e par\u00eb rreth fes\u00eb kur ai filloi t\u00eb predikonte Islamin. Si mosha ashtu dhe historia para-martesore e saj (n\u00eb koh\u00ebn e martes\u00ebs me Muhamedin 25-vje\u00e7ar) kan\u00eb ngelur t\u00eb paqarta; thuhet se ajo ishte ose 28 ose 41 vje\u00e7, dhe mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb qen\u00eb e virgj\u00ebr ose jo - thon\u00eb shkollar\u00ebt. Ekzistenca e ndonj\u00eb lidhje t\u00eb m\u00ebparshme, apor dhe f\u00ebmije t\u00eb saj nuk njihet, \u00ebsht\u00eb e diskutueshme.<\/p>\n

Megjithat\u00eb, do ishte martesa m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme nga t\u00eb gjitha rr\u00ebfimet n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e Profetit: 6 nga 7 f\u00ebmij\u00ebt biologjik\u00eb u lind\u00ebn me Hadijen. \u00c7ifti do ishin t\u00eb lumtuar, e respetuan monogamin\u00eb gjat\u00eb 24 viteve t\u00eb martes\u00ebs, gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb koh\u00ebs sa ishin bashk\u00eb. Vdekja e saj n\u00eb v. 619, n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 52 (ose 65 vje\u00e7), i dha fund martes\u00ebs s\u00eb par\u00eb dhe monogamis\u00eb s\u00eb Muhamedit, i cili ishte 49 vje\u00e7 n\u00eb at\u00eb koh\u00eb. <\/p>\n

Pas migrimit t\u00eb tij n\u00eb Medin\u00eb, do martohej me 10 gra t\u00eb tjera, pothuaj vit p\u00ebr vit rishtas martes\u00eb, dhe + 1 grua i shtohej sht\u00ebpis\u00eb s\u00eb tij. Jetonte n\u00eb Medine, ndon\u00ebse s'do kishte asnj\u00eb grua medinase, me sa duket sepse ata nuk e p\u00ebrkrahnin miratimin e Islamit p\u00ebr martes\u00ebn me shum\u00eb gra, dhe mbase kishte t'b\u00ebnte me kufizimin e t\u00eb drejt\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre p\u00ebr trash\u00ebgimi. Anise mysliman\u00ebt jan\u00eb t\u00eb kufizuar fetarisht p\u00ebr t'i patur 4 gra s\u00ebshumti (jo m\u00eb shum\u00eb se 4 n\u00eb t'nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb), ky kufizim nuk vlente p\u00ebr Muhamedin, p\u00ebr arsye t\u00eb statusit t\u00eb tij si profet ishte i privilegjuar t\u00eb kishte nj\u00eb num\u00ebr t\u00eb pakufizuar grash. \"Pakufizimi\" i tij p\u00ebr grat\u00eb, dhe duke poseduar fuqi te pashtershme seksuale, padyshim bekuar me vullnetin hyjnor, n\u00eb nj\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb caktuar do ishte 11, si\u00e7 na e thot\u00eb historiani al-Tabari (fuqi 30-burrnore), dhe pra nuk \"kufizohej\" me normativin 4.<\/p>\n

P\u00ebrve\u00e7 k\u00ebtij jokufizimi, po ashtu nuk lejohej q\u00eb grat\u00eb e Profetit t\u00eb rimartoheshin (pas vdekjes s\u00eb tij); t\u00eb gjith\u00eb burrat e koh\u00ebs pas vdekjes s\u00eb tij qen\u00eb paralajm\u00ebruar rrept\u00ebsisht kund\u00ebr p\u00ebrpjekjes p\u00ebr t'u martuar me k\u00ebto gra t\u00eb veja. Q\u00ebllimi p\u00ebr t'u martuar me grat\u00eb e Profetit n\u00eb Kuran klasifikohet si \"shkelje e madhe n\u00eb syt\u00eb e Allahut\".<\/p>\n

Akademiku skocez William Montgomery Watt pohon se t\u00eb gjitha martesat e Muhamedit kishin aspektin politik t\u00eb forcimit t\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve diplomatike e miq\u00ebsore, dhe bazoheshin n\u00eb zakonet arabe.
\nProfesori amerikan John Esposito thekson se disa nga martesat e tij kishin p\u00ebr q\u00ebllim sigurimin e jetes\u00ebs p\u00ebr vejushat e ngelura ashtu pa burrat - Esposito v\u00ebn n\u00eb dukje se n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb arabe rimartesa ishte e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr ato gra t\u00eb veja, shoq\u00ebri q\u00eb ishte e fokusuar n\u00eb virgj\u00ebrin\u00eb fem\u00ebrore dhe past\u00ebrtin\u00eb seksuale. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb psh. n\u00ebse bazohemi n\u00eb v\u00ebrejtjen e Prof. Esposito, gruaja e tret\u00eb (ose e dyt\u00eb) Aisha bint Ebi Bakr, dmth. gruaja e vet\u00eb Profetit, duke qen\u00eb m\u00eb e reja, pas vdekjes s\u00eb tij do ngelej nj\u00eb \"fatkeqe\" e till\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Akademiku amerikan Francis Edward Peters thot\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebsh p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsime rreth martesave t\u00eb Muhamedit; shum\u00eb prej tyre ishin martesa politike, disa prej tyre do ken\u00eb qen\u00eb nga dhimbshuria (dmth. nj\u00ebsoj si\u00e7 thot\u00eb Prof. Esposito, p\u00ebr t'i ndihmuar vejushat e ngelura), ndonj\u00ebra nga martesat ndoshta kishte t'b\u00ebnte dhe me \u00e7\u00ebshtjet e zemr\u00ebs - thot\u00eb Peters. <\/p>\n

Historiani amerikan John Victor Tolan shkruan se martesat e Muhamedit ishin kryesisht p\u00ebrpjekje p\u00ebr t'krijuar aleanca politike.<\/p>\n

K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb objektivat, ose q\u00ebllimet e martesave t\u00eb shumta t\u00eb Profetit Muhamed jan\u00eb p\u00ebrshkruar si qasje p\u00ebr krijimin e lidhjeve familjare mes tij dhe shok\u00ebve-miq\u00ebve (Psh. u martua me vajzat e Ebu Bekrit dhe Umarit, nd\u00ebrsa Uthmani dhe Aliu u martuan me vajzat e tij - n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb do kishte lidhje familjare me gjith\u00eb fisin e Rashidun\u00ebve). Mir\u00ebpo, kuptohet po ashtu, objektiv\u00eb strategjike ishte dhe p\u00ebrhapja e Islamit duke bashkuar fise dhe klane t\u00eb ndryshme arabe p\u00ebrmes martesave.
\n(s. guraziu - ars poetica, n 2025) - ky postim \"serial\" lidhur me tem\u00ebn n\u00eb fjal\u00eb, s'\u00ebsht\u00eb patjet\u00ebr p\u00ebrmbledhje fundimtare dhe as e p\u00ebrfunduar, eventualisht mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrplot\u00ebsohet dhe p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsohet n\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n

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Women of Prophet Muhammad<\/strong><\/span>

Khadijah bint Khuwaylid (Married, July 595) - Muhammad's first marriage was to Khadijah bint Khuwaylid in 595, when he was ~24-25 years old and she was either 28 or 41. She was his only wife until her death in 619 (the Year of Sorrow) ended their 24-year-long marriage. After Khadija, Muhammad went on to marry another 10 women. Khadijah was a wealthy merchant from Mecca who employed the young Muhammad and then proposed marriage. She was the mother of six<\/p>

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Women of Prophet Muhammad - Refused Proposals<\/strong><\/span> Habiba bint Sahl (Proposal c. 623) - Habiba was a prominent member of the Najjar clan in Medina. When the chief died with no obvious heir, Muhammad proposed to Habiba. His companions warned him that the women of Medina were not used to polygamy and that the men were very jealous for the happiness of their daughters; if this marriage turned out badly, key citizens might withdraw their support from Islam. Muhammad retracted his proposal, but the Najjar clan made
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Women of Prophet Muhammad - Concubines<\/strong><\/span>

This category of consorts of the prophet forms a separate category, since these women were not actually given over in marriage with an 'aqd-nikaah and a mahr to the prophet, but were rather his personal property, \"what the right hand possesses.\" That is to say, explicitly, that these were his sex slaves, also known as \"concubines\", were obliged to have sex with him. As such Muhammad availed himself of them sexually although they were not actually granted the status of<\/p>

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Women of Prophet Muhammad - Engagements and Broken Contracts<\/strong><\/span>

Khawla bint Hudhayl (~627) - She was a princess from the powerful Christian Taghlib tribe in northern Arabia. Her uncle arranged the marriage, which was expected to be politically advantageous on both sides. Muhammad signed the contract, but Khawla died on her journey to Medina, before they met in person. The same year, Sharaf bint Khalifa (~627 - she was an aunt of Khawla bint Hudhayl) - after Khawla's death, the family tried to substitute Sharaf. In one tradition, Sharaf<\/p>

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