{"id":6570,"date":"2020-09-09T15:51:26","date_gmt":"2020-09-09T14:51:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/letrat.eu\/?p=6570"},"modified":"2025-12-05T18:51:51","modified_gmt":"2025-12-05T17:51:51","slug":"mikro-menaxhimi-emocional-dhe-tekat-e-ndjesise","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/letrat.eu\/?p=6570","title":{"rendered":"Mikro-menaxhimi emocional dhe tekat e ndjesis\u00eb!"},"content":{"rendered":"

S. Guraziu, 2020 (Humoresk\u00eb)<\/em><\/p>\n

“A habitej si B shkruante p\u00ebr dashurin\u00eb pa qen\u00eb vet\u00eb e dashuruar. B iu p\u00ebrgjigj – Un\u00eb shkruaj p\u00ebr vdekjen po ashtu, pa qen\u00eb e vdekur fare<\/strong>.” – Cees Buddingh<\/p>\n

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Poezia mund t\u00eb definohet dhe si “form\u00eb” finale e ndjenjave dhe parandjenjave, si kauzalitet, si “krijes\u00eb kauzale” e gjendjeve dhe paragjendjeve shpirt\u00ebrore. Shi p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb dhe k\u00ebrkohet t’jet\u00eb “pasqyrim” sa m\u00eb i sakt\u00eb i universit internal, eko-lokim sa m\u00eb besnik i klithmave shpirt\u00ebrore e mendore. Ndjenjat s’kan\u00eb orar as itinerar, mendimet, emocionet dhe reaksionet mund t’vijn\u00eb e t\u00eb shkojn\u00eb. Her\u00eb ndodh\u00eb eruptojn\u00eb, p\u00ebrv\u00eblojn\u00eb si vullkani, her\u00eb v\u00ebshojn\u00eb si cunami… her\u00eb fashiten e zhduken fare.<\/p>\n

Si krijues kurr\u00eb s’duhet patur frik\u00eb nga ndjenjat, nga Muzat, nga frym\u00ebzimet, nga shtytjet kreative… qofshin dhe diktate “demoniake” t\u00eb Czeslaw Milosz. Duke i sjellur n\u00eb jet\u00eb metaforat e simbolikat, kuptohet duhet t\u00eb ndjesh at\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb komode, m\u00eb e p\u00ebrshtatshme personalisht. T\u00eb ndjesh \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e jet\u00ebs, kusht fare i natyrsh\u00ebm i procesit jet\u00ebsor. T\u00eb ndjesh \u00ebsht\u00eb proces individual, skajshm\u00ebrisht personal, k\u00ebshtusoj dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb i ndrysh\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb. Si poet, n\u00ebse poet… at\u00ebher\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb supozuar t\u00eb ndjesh gjithqysh dhe gjith\u00e7ka.<\/p>\n

Nobelisti Czeslaw Milosz ishte dhe vet\u00eb poet mir\u00ebpo ndjente keqardhje p\u00ebr poet\u00ebt. Keqardhjen e vet e mb\u00ebshteste n\u00eb spekulimet se gjoja “poezia diktohet nga nj\u00eb intelekt demoniak, dhe do ishte ekzagjerim t\u00eb pohohet se ky demon na qenka ndonj\u00eb engj\u00ebll i bardh\u00eb”. Tutje keqardhjen e vet Milosz do ta kristalizonte duke shtruar pyetjen “cili njeri i arsyesh\u00ebm do d\u00ebshironte t’jet\u00eb nj\u00eb qytet demon\u00ebsh, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt sillen si n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e tyre, flasin n\u00eb shum\u00eb gjuh\u00eb dhe t\u00eb cil\u00ebt nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur me vjedhjen e buz\u00ebve a t\u00eb dor\u00ebs, tek merren me ndryshimin e fatit t\u00eb tij sipas rehatis\u00eb t\u00eb tyre?”.<\/p>\n

Poet\u00ebt nga shumkush konsiderohen “specie” mjaft t\u00eb \u00e7uditshme, mir\u00ebpo si poet (cilidokush sa p\u00ebr veten) s’duhet ekzagjeruar: sado i \u00e7uditsh\u00ebm… thjesht nj\u00eb frymor i zakonsh\u00ebm, qenie njer\u00ebzore. P\u00ebr fat t\u00eb mir\u00eb poet\u00ebt s’jan\u00eb android\u00eb internetik me butona, me fiber-optika, as krijesash t\u00eb \u00e7uditshme bio-makinale. Ashtu do ishte tmerr\u00ebsisht m\u00eb keq. Anise, p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb korrekt\u00ebsis\u00eb, dekadat e reja na kan\u00eb introduktuar me lloj-lloj vjershash “robotike”. Gjithsesi, si poet duhet t’ia b\u00ebsh vetes t\u00eb qart\u00eb, e ashtuquajtura “inteligjenc\u00eb emocionale” ka t’b\u00ebj\u00eb me biznesb\u00ebrjen, me p\u00ebrditshm\u00ebrin\u00eb praktike t\u00eb biznesit, assesi me poezin\u00eb. Mjaft njer\u00ebz madje s’u besojn\u00eb fare “shkencave” t\u00eb tilla, sipas tyre t’i menaxhosh emocionet (gjoja n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb men\u00e7ur) \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb pseudo-shkenc\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr.<\/p>\n

Si poet, n\u00ebse thua “do shkruaj poezi” (bie fjala p\u00ebr humbjen e dashuris\u00eb, ose p\u00ebr humbjen e di\u00e7kaje t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme personale) kujtohu se nuk ka m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb dhe as t\u00eb gabuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndjer. Sido q\u00eb t\u00eb ndjesh (n\u00eb momentin e caktuar) mund t’jet\u00eb e drejt\u00eb po aq sa dhe e gabuar. Gjithashtu, nuk ka m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb as t\u00eb gabuar p\u00ebr reaksionet zinxhirore (nga eventet eventuale ndjesore). Si poet do nisesh se ak\u00ebcili reaksion emocional, sikur dhe cilido formulim i mendimeve \u00ebsht\u00eb parallogaritur q\u00eb t’jet\u00eb normal – normalitet absolut. Emocionet “reaksionare” dhe ngarkesat nuk konsiderohen t\u00eb “jasht\u00ebzakonshme” as speciale – merret se jan\u00eb fare normale, pasi dhe jan\u00eb plot\u00ebsisht natyrale.<\/p>\n

Jesenini i ngrat\u00eb po mendonte t’i jepte fund jet\u00ebs s\u00eb vet, imagjino sa keq ishte katandisur psiko-emocionalja e tij. Para se ta b\u00ebnte, pati vendosur ta shkruante nj\u00eb poezi finale, di\u00e7 si “lamtumir\u00eb poetike”. Mos vall duhet tani ta “gjykojm\u00eb” depresionin e tij, ndjenj\u00ebn e tij t\u00eb pik\u00ebllimit e t\u00eb trishtimit? Apo mos vall\u00eb duhet ta “gjykojm\u00eb” nj\u00eb shpirt aq t\u00eb pafajsh\u00ebm si Sylvia Plath? Sigurisht q\u00eb jo!
\nPoet\u00ebt mund t\u00eb ndiejn\u00eb e t’shkruajn\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr vdekjen e tyre, t\u00eb reagojn\u00eb ndaj vdekjes s\u00eb dikujt tjet\u00ebr, ndaj s\u00ebmundjes, humbjes s\u00eb pun\u00ebs, humbjes s\u00eb aspiratave, humbjes s\u00eb dashuris\u00eb, apo… p\u00ebr pasojat katastrofale t\u00eb divorcit, ose dhe p\u00ebr cil\u00ebndo p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb q\u00eb e ka e l\u00ebkundur qenien e tyre, qe e ka ndryshuar jet\u00ebn e tyre, qoft\u00eb nj\u00eb grim\u00eb apo dhe qoft\u00eb thelb\u00ebsisht.<\/p>\n

Natyrisht, n\u00eb poezi mund t\u00eb eksplorosh gjith\u00e7ka, absolutisht gjith\u00e7ka. Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb duhet t’i ndash me lexuesin kujtimet, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb g\u00ebzimet, \u00ebndrrat, vizionet, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb t\u00eb vjen ta shpalos\u00ebsh trishtimin, zezonat m\u00eb t\u00eb thella t\u00eb shpirtit. Kurr\u00eb mos hezito t’i eksplorosh oazat e ndjesis\u00eb, shkrepe… shkrepsen poetike, varg\u00ebzoji ndjenjat si perlat n\u00eb pentagramin e muzik\u00ebs, shkruaje at\u00eb kryevepr\u00ebn romantike, at\u00eb lirik\u00ebn p\u00ebr Euridiken, apo dhe at\u00eb elegjin\u00eb prek\u00ebse nj\u00ebsoj si Orfeu i ngrat\u00eb, le t’i rrotullohet zemra, e t’i rrjedhin lot\u00ebt dhe vet\u00eb Hadesit, le t’l\u00ebkunden shpirtrat m\u00eb t\u00eb “r\u00ebnd\u00eb” t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj bote.<\/p>\n

N\u00ebse shfaqet nevoja ta poetizosh zem\u00ebrimin p\u00ebr nj\u00eb situat\u00eb, apo rreth nj\u00eb personi, ose n\u00ebse fjala t’na jet\u00eb p\u00ebr zem\u00ebrimin n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, thjesht b\u00ebje pra. Vjersh\u00ebrisht mund t\u00eb shprehet gjith\u00e7ka, mos i “menaxho” ndjenjat, emocionet, reaksionet. Gjithmon\u00eb shprehe lirish\u00ebm ndjenj\u00ebn e fajit p\u00ebr m\u00ebkatet q\u00eb i ke b\u00ebr\u00eb gjat\u00eb jet\u00ebs. Ose fare p\u00ebr t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt\u00ebn… p\u00ebr gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb do duhej, e megjithat\u00eb s’i ke b\u00ebr\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Var\u00ebsisht nga rrethanat personale, var\u00ebsisht nga natyrshm\u00ebria emocionale, “lista” e varietetve, e ekspresioneve poetike \u00ebsht\u00eb e pafund. \u00c7far\u00ebdo q\u00eb t’shkruash, poezia mund t\u00eb veproj\u00eb si nj\u00eb “bart\u00ebse” stilistike e ndjenjave p\u00ebr gjith\u00e7ka t\u00eb bot\u00ebs sate. Pa p\u00ebrjashtime, poezia mund t’i fosilizoj\u00eb madje dhe hamend\u00ebsit\u00eb lidhur me filozofin\u00eb, lidhur me sharllatanizmat e shaman\u00ebve, lidhur me pollavrat astrologjike, me legjendat, me mitologjin\u00eb, me shkencat ekzakte, religjionin, spiritualitetin, ose madje-madje dhe lidhur me kuptimin e vet\u00eb jet\u00ebs sate si poet.<\/p>\n

Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb duhet ta fal\u00ebsh veten p\u00ebr neglizhencat intelektuale t\u00eb s\u00eb kaluar\u00ebs, p\u00ebr gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb do duhej ta kishe th\u00ebn\u00eb ose b\u00ebr\u00eb. Af\u00ebrmendsh, vet\u00ebngush\u00ebllimi do jet\u00eb logjik, pasi mungesa e guximit intelektual nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00ebsisht “faj” i poet\u00ebve. Ka shum\u00eb faktor\u00eb dhe ingrediente q\u00eb e vulosin “karakterin” intelektual t\u00eb poet\u00ebve. Shum\u00eb prej k\u00ebtyre faktor\u00ebve nuk varen nga ta. Sigurisht, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb duhet falur vetja dhe p\u00ebr sikletin q\u00eb mund ta ndjesh sa i p\u00ebrket “nivelit artistik” t\u00eb vet\u00eb krijesave… dmth. tek e shohin drit\u00ebn si poezi nga pena jote.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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