{"id":8843,"date":"2021-11-04T23:47:54","date_gmt":"2021-11-04T22:47:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/letrat.eu\/?p=8843"},"modified":"2024-04-09T08:29:23","modified_gmt":"2024-04-09T07:29:23","slug":"sinkroni-me-zemren-jo-me-opinionet-e-te-tjereve-thote-urtesia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/letrat.eu\/?p=8843","title":{"rendered":"Sinkroni me zemr\u00ebn, jo me opinionet e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve &#8211; thot\u00eb urt\u00ebsia!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #999999;\"><em>(sg &#8211; ap, n 21 &#8211; humoresk\u00eb &#8211; duke rrahur &#8220;filozofin\u00eb&#8221; e zgjedhjeve, qasja nr. 2)<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&#8230;ky citati (ngjitur, i &#8220;tipografuar&#8221; mjaft bukur nga dikush) thot\u00eb se &#8220;<strong>jemi krijues t\u00eb fuqish\u00ebm<\/strong>&#8230;&#8221; &#8211; nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr urt\u00ebsi e ngjashme fliste p\u00ebr mund\u00ebsin\u00eb e zgjedhjes: &#8220;<strong>un\u00eb zgjedh t&#8217;jetoj sipas zgjedhjes, jo sipas fatit a shansit, zgjedh t&#8217;jem i motivuar, jo i manipuluar, t&#8217;jem i dobish\u00ebm, jo i p\u00ebrdorur, t\u00eb ofroj ndryshime, jo justifikime. Zgjedh t\u00eb shquhem, jo t\u00eb shtyhem me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Zgjedh vet\u00ebbesimin, jo keqardhjen p\u00ebr veten. Un\u00eb zgjedh z\u00ebrin e zemr\u00ebs, jo opinionet e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve<\/strong>&#8221; &#8212; (urt\u00ebsi anonime)<\/p>\n<p><a  href=\"https:\/\/letrat.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/sinkroni_me_zemren_jo_me_opinionet_web.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-gallery-0\" data-rl_title=\"\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-8844\" src=\"https:\/\/letrat.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/sinkroni_me_zemren_jo_me_opinionet_web.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"900\" height=\"609\" srcset=\"https:\/\/letrat.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/sinkroni_me_zemren_jo_me_opinionet_web.jpg 1712w, https:\/\/letrat.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/sinkroni_me_zemren_jo_me_opinionet_web-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/letrat.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/sinkroni_me_zemren_jo_me_opinionet_web-1024x693.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/letrat.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/sinkroni_me_zemren_jo_me_opinionet_web-768x520.jpg 768w, https:\/\/letrat.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/sinkroni_me_zemren_jo_me_opinionet_web-1536x1040.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&#8230;anise na qenka &#8220;urt\u00ebsi anonime&#8221; megjithat\u00eb e dim\u00eb se, psh. p\u00ebr ata urtak\u00ebt e lasht\u00ebsis\u00eb aq e leht\u00eb, t\u00eb tilla urt\u00ebsi s&#8217;ishin dhe aq sfiduese, as p\u00ebr mendjen as p\u00ebr zemr\u00ebn, bota kishte dhe gjithmon\u00eb do ket\u00eb pleq t\u00eb urt\u00eb, mendimtar\u00eb, urtak\u00eb, filozof\u00eb e teoricien\u00eb, s&#8217;\u00ebsht\u00eb e th\u00ebn\u00eb se patjet\u00ebr duhej t&#8217;ishin as t&#8217;jen\u00eb Aristotela, Konfu\u00e7io e Platona, thelbi \u00ebsht\u00eb se dikur do ken\u00eb patur sa t\u00eb duash koh\u00eb, n\u00eb k\u00ebrkim t\u00eb paqes e t\u00eb balansit, ulur me jav\u00eb e me muaj duke medituar, balansim i &#8220;\u00e7akrave dhe bot\u00ebsh t\u00eb trazuara&#8221; &#8211; n\u00ebse njeriu prore &#8220;menduesh\u00ebm&#8221;, n\u00ebse pandal\u00eb duke medituar, me dit\u00eb e me net, qoft\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00ebkryq a bythp\u00ebrpjet\u00eb, n\u00ebse ta ket\u00eb gjetur at\u00eb qet\u00ebsin\u00eb psiko-shpirt\u00ebrore ehuuu&#8230; e qart\u00eb, ashtu patjet\u00ebr se do shkrepin lloj-lloj men\u00e7urish e urt\u00ebsish : )<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;ama le t&#8217;zhvendosemi n\u00eb t\u00eb tashmen, le t&#8217;jemi sadopak realist\u00eb duke zbritur n\u00eb &#8220;tok\u00ebn e nj\u00ebmend\u00ebsis\u00eb&#8221;, le t&#8217;flasim p\u00ebr koh\u00ebn ton\u00eb t\u00eb bujshme, p\u00ebr koh\u00ebn e st\u00ebrngjeshur&#8230; p\u00ebrplot joshjesh, tundimesh e xingla-minglash, jo se e shohim n\u00eb TV por e gjith\u00eb bota k\u00ebndellur tashm\u00eb, nga m\u00eb madhori i &#8220;apple-manis\u00eb&#8221; e deri tek vegj\u00eblia e rezervateve t\u00eb preris\u00eb, padyshim dhe getot skaj-m\u00eb-skaj Indis\u00eb, dhe vet\u00eb cull\u00eb-jasht\u00ebt imagjinar (dikur) t\u00eb N\u00ebn\u00eb Terez\u00ebs, n\u00ebse t&#8217;frymonte realisht (si personazh) dhe vet\u00eb &#8220;Luli i voc\u00ebrr&#8221; do i harronte tullumbat e leckat, s&#8217;do skajohej, as turp, s&#8217;do ishte i &#8220;varf\u00ebr&#8221;, p\u00ebrkundrazi, do ngujohej n\u00eb dritaren e &#8220;Fb-chatit&#8221;, befasi p\u00ebr gjith\u00eb yllkat, \u00e7up\u00ebrlinat e fshatit, mini-Migjen i krenaris\u00eb, do b\u00ebhej yll e drit\u00eb&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;natyrisht, patjet\u00ebr se dhe Lul-picimuli do ishte &#8220;maxi-kompjuterizuar&#8221; e modernizuar &#8211; shkurt, duke p\u00ebrparuar af\u00ebrmendsh se dhe bota ka ndryshuar, gjithkush i ndjek hapat dhe trendet, me \u00e7unat, me \u00e7up\u00ebrlinat e me picimulat e lagjes duhet t&#8217;ken\u00eb iPhone, s&#8217;na duhet d\u00ebshmi internetike as TV-marifet, fare e leht\u00eb ta dim\u00eb q\u00eb bota kurr\u00eb s&#8217;ka qen\u00eb m\u00eb e p\u00ebrparuar se sot&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;kahdo rrotullohemi tundimet na e z\u00ebn\u00eb udh\u00ebn, sepse bota aq e madhe dhe aq e &#8220;vog\u00ebl&#8221; nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht, tashm\u00eb secili frymor\u00eb i planetit flet me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin, socio-mediatik\u00ebt ve\u00e7 i kan\u00eb lidhur me kinez\u00eb e me eskimez\u00eb, me lulandez\u00eb e me kikirez\u00eb, shohim e \u00e7&#8217;nuk shohim, d\u00ebgojm\u00eb e \u00e7&#8217;nuk d\u00ebgjojm\u00eb, aq sa shpesh sikur kemi d\u00ebshir\u00eb t&#8217;ishim t\u00eb shurdh\u00ebr a pa vesh\u00eb, sa p\u00ebr aso euforish &#8220;personale&#8221; e leht\u00eb t&#8217;i kap\u00ebrdijm\u00eb, ishim m\u00ebsuar, na ishte i njohur fenomeni, ishte di\u00e7 &#8220;klasike&#8221; dhe ia kemi dalur gjithmon\u00eb, tani s&#8217;\u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e nj\u00ebjta k\u00ebng\u00eb, e desh\u00ebm apo s&#8217;e desh\u00ebm gj\u00ebrat kan\u00eb ndryshuar, tashm\u00eb e gjith\u00eb bota e lidhur me &#8220;veg\u00ebzat&#8221;, me idet\u00eb socio-politike, me vizionet kolektive, me hiperbol-izmat, me euforistikat &#8220;masive&#8221;, nganj\u00ebher\u00eb na b\u00ebhet sikur gjith\u00eb bota &#8220;\u00e7mendurisht&#8230; crazy&#8221;&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;njoh\u00ebsit e trendeve moderne, por dhe futurolog\u00ebt, Fb-ekspert\u00ebt insistojn\u00eb q\u00eb t&#8217;mos p\u00ebrjashtohet mund\u00ebsia se: ekziston mund\u00ebsia dhe vet\u00eb gjyshet eskimeze tallen \u00e7do dit\u00eb me ne, se gjoja na e hedhin me lloj-lloj maskash, jo figurativisht por ngjash\u00ebm si n\u00eb maskaradat e karnavalit t\u00eb Venecias, s&#8217;dihet kush prapa kujt \u00ebsht\u00eb, parakalojn\u00eb e defilojn\u00eb me miliarda shpirtrash, face-eufori kolektive, trumpeta, valle e lloj-lloj muzikash&#8230; miliarda fytyrash t\u00eb maskuara, miliarda ego e alter-ego &#8220;kacafytur&#8221; pas miliarda \u00ebndrrash &#8211; ok mbase insistimi i tyre n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pik\u00eb ting\u00ebllon paksa si ekzagjerim, mir\u00ebpo s&#8217;e mohon kush faktin q\u00eb e sotmja na huton me lloj-lloj dritash e muzikash, me lloj-lloj tundimesh, maskash e mrekullirash&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;dhe n\u00ebse ne t\u00eb ngrat\u00ebt kaq t\u00eb hutuar pas &#8220;hiper-realizmit&#8221;, n\u00ebse prore n\u00eb vrap e duke ngarendur, jo vet\u00ebm ngarendje pas mbijetes\u00ebs (gjoja vrapim &#8220;modern&#8221;, gjallim bashk\u00ebkohor) por dhe pas luksoziteteve, pas d\u00ebshirave e fluturave t\u00eb mendjes&#8230; at\u00ebher\u00eb, (sikur po thosha m\u00ebvete) athua vall\u00eb na ngelet koh\u00eb ta &#8220;d\u00ebgjojm\u00eb&#8221; at\u00eb z\u00ebrin e brendsh\u00ebm, athua vall\u00eb jetojm\u00eb v\u00ebrtet-realisht si\u00e7 e thot\u00eb ky citati, apo vet\u00ebm &#8220;teorikisht&#8221;, aty-k\u00ebtu n\u00eb form\u00ebn e urt\u00ebsive tipografike, ia p\u00ebrkujtojm\u00eb vetes?!<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;sa i p\u00ebrket k\u00ebsaj problematike, \u00e7&#8217;\u00ebsht\u00eb e drejta, s&#8217;e kam iden\u00eb &#8211; sidoqoft\u00eb, e pakontestueshme urt\u00ebsia q\u00eb t&#8217;jetohet lidhur me &#8220;kauz\u00ebn&#8221; \u00e7dosecil\u00ebn dit\u00eb, q\u00ebllimisht, k\u00ebmb\u00ebngult\u00ebsisht i motivuar e me q\u00ebllim, pasi dhe s&#8217;duhet mohuar at\u00eb fakt-orin e madh q\u00eb jemi krijues t\u00eb fuqish\u00ebm, jemi kreativ sa vet\u00eb marramendja, shpikim risi e lloj-lloj xingla-minglash, kalitemi me p\u00ebrvojat e me zot\u00ebsin\u00eb, zemrat ashtu-k\u00ebshtu t\u00eb pandalshme, ngjeshur me ndjenjat e me \u00ebndrrat, me planet, me iluzionet d\u00ebshirore, me ambicjet, me \u00e7mos&#8230; &#8230;dhe dihet, krijimet tona nisin q\u00eb nga q\u00ebllimet, q\u00eb nga aspiratat, q\u00eb nga ambicjet, mrekullia e gjith\u00eb k\u00ebsaj tutje ushqehet me faktin q\u00eb her\u00ebt a m\u00eb von\u00eb (bazuar n\u00eb krijimet tona) e dim\u00eb sakt\u00ebsisht se kush jemi (ne vet\u00eb, pasi v\u00ebshtir\u00eb ta manipulojm\u00eb veten, zor t&#8217;ia hedhim vetes, apo jo)&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;pra, si pik\u00ebnisje njohja e vetes do duhej t&#8217;ishte e mjaftueshme p\u00ebr t&#8217;u quajtur &#8220;nism\u00eb&#8221; &#8211; t\u00eb kuptuarit e vetvetes mbase \u00ebsht\u00eb ai \u00e7el\u00ebsi i art\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb ai hapi i par\u00eb (fort i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm). Hapi i dyt\u00eb, padyshim s&#8217;do ndikoj\u00eb aq n\u00eb bot\u00ebn ton\u00eb t\u00eb &#8220;jashtme&#8221; sa ndikon n\u00eb t\u00eb brendshmen, me hapin tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb dyt\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb supozuar t&#8217;i b\u00ebjm\u00eb zgjedhjet tona, t\u00eb vendosim. Dhe pastaj vjen pjesa e nd\u00ebrlikuar e gjith\u00eb urt\u00ebsis\u00eb, hapi i tret\u00eb s&#8217;do jet\u00eb tutje p\u00ebr t&#8217;zgjedhur di\u00e7, por p\u00ebr t&#8217;i zbatuar zgjedhjet e b\u00ebra tashm\u00eb, dmth. p\u00ebr t&#8217;jetuar tutje strikt e konform sipas m\u00ebnyr\u00ebs s\u00eb &#8220;p\u00ebrcaktuar&#8221; nga zgjedhjet tona &#8211; ku di, n\u00ebse kihet parasysh buja dhe dinamikat e koh\u00ebs son\u00eb (si\u00e7 i rrah\u00ebm m\u00eb lart), ideja e anashkalimit t\u00eb opinioneve p\u00ebr t&#8217;i ngelur besnik zemr\u00ebs duket aq e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, duket jorealistike, pothuaj &#8220;e pamundur&#8221;, pothuaj utopi e larg\u00ebt, mission impossible, totalisht distopike&#8230; : )<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(sg &#8211; ap, n 21 &#8211; humoresk\u00eb &#8211; duke rrahur &#8220;filozofin\u00eb&#8221; e zgjedhjeve, qasja nr. 2) &#8230;ky citati (ngjitur, i &#8220;tipografuar&#8221; mjaft bukur nga dikush) thot\u00eb se &#8220;jemi krijues t\u00eb fuqish\u00ebm&#8230;&#8221; &#8211; nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr urt\u00ebsi e ngjashme fliste p\u00ebr mund\u00ebsin\u00eb&hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/letrat.eu\/?p=8843\" class=\"more-link\">Lexo <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8843","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-humoreska"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/letrat.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8843","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/letrat.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/letrat.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/letrat.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/letrat.eu\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=8843"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/letrat.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8843\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/letrat.eu\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=8843"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/letrat.eu\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=8843"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/letrat.eu\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=8843"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}